How God Answers Prayer
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In one sentence: God hears His people's prayers from the first word, as Jesus was sure the Father always heard Him, and He answers by varied routes on His own timetable, sometimes unnoticed while it happens, keeping every prayer before Him until its answer comes.
Key Takeaways
(This section follows the Key Takeaways format — see that page for what each part is for.)
Lessons about Jesus
- He prayed sure of being heard. At Lazarus's tomb He thanked the Father before Lazarus came out: "I knew that you always hear me" (John 11:42, ESV).
- His hardest prayer was heard through death and out of it. In Gethsemane He asked, "let this cup pass from me" (Matthew 26:39, ESV), and the cup did not pass. Hebrews still says "he was heard because of his reverence" (Hebrews 5:7, ESV), and the Father "able to save him from death" raised Him from it.
- The Father answered Him aloud for other people's sake. "Father, glorify your name" drew a voice from heaven, and Jesus told the crowd, "This voice has come for your sake, not mine" (John 12:28-30, ESV).
- Your prayers are held before Him. The elders fall before the Lamb holding "golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints" (Revelation 5:8, ESV).
Memory verses
✝️ Daniel 10:12 (ESV)
12 Then he said to me, "Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words.
✝️ Hebrews 5:7 (ESV)
7 In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to him who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverence.
Be Transformed
- Think. Count your prayer heard from its first word. Daniel's words were heard "from the first day" (Daniel 10:12), and a word went out "at the beginning" of his pleas (Daniel 9:23). A wait means the answer is still on its way, or kept until its time.
- Attitude. Hold your preferred route loosely. God has answered with a person arriving at a well, a door closed one way and opened another, and a refusal that came with grace attached: "My grace is sufficient for you" (2 Corinthians 12:9, ESV).
- Do. Watch for the answer as well as asking for it. The church in Acts 12 prayed all night for Peter and then argued with the girl who said he was at the gate (Acts 12:13-16). Write down what you ask, and look back over it, so that an answer knocking at your door gets let in.
Prayer
Father, thank You that You heard Your Son Jesus every time He prayed, and that You hear us from the first word, as You heard Daniel. When the answer is slow, keep us sure that we have been heard. Open our eyes to the answers we would otherwise argue with at the door. Keep our prayers before You, as You have shown us in Revelation, until You answer them. In Jesus' name. Amen.
Heard, and then answered
Jesus prayed with a settled confidence about being heard, and said so out loud at Lazarus's tomb:
✝️ John 11:41-42 (ESV)
41 So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, "Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me."
"I knew that you always hear me", and He says it before Lazarus comes out: the confidence comes first, and the miracle follows it. Scripture's accounts of answered prayer share that confidence. What they show about how the answer arrives falls into four patterns, and a fifth thing about the prayers still waiting.
Already on the way before the prayer ends
Often it is already on the way before the prayer ends. Isaiah gives it as a promise: "Before they call I will answer; while they are yet speaking I will hear" (Isaiah 65:24, ESV). The promise belongs to the age to come, the "new heavens and a new earth" of Isaiah 65:17. Interpreters divide over whether those verses picture the millennial kingdom, where people still die at a great age (Isaiah 65:20), or the eternal state; this site reads them dispensationally, of the kingdom. Either way the promise describes a God the narratives already show answering this way.
Abraham's servant, sent to find a wife for Isaac, prays for a specific sign at a well. Genesis reports the timing twice, once by the narrator and once in the servant's own retelling to Laban:
✝️ Genesis 24:15 (ESV)
15 Before he had finished speaking, behold, Rebekah, who was born to Bethuel the son of Milcah, the wife of Nahor, Abraham's brother, came out with her water jar on her shoulder.
"Before I had finished speaking in my heart, behold, Rebekah came out" (Genesis 24:45, ESV), and note in my heart: it was silent, and it was already being answered. Daniel is told something sharper still. Gabriel arrives "while I was speaking in prayer" (Daniel 9:21, ESV) and explains the timing: "At the beginning of your pleas for mercy a word went out, and I have come to tell it to you" (Daniel 9:23, ESV). The answer was sent at the prayer's first words.
Heard immediately, delivered three weeks later
But being heard and receiving the answer are two different things. Daniel's other vision guards the point against becoming a promise of speed:
✝️ Daniel 10:12-13 (ESV)
12 Then he said to me, "Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words. 13 The prince of the kingdom of Persia withstood me twenty-one days, but Michael, one of the chief princes, came to help me, for I was left there with the kings of Persia, …
Heard on the first day; the messenger arrived after twenty-one days. Daniel spent those three weeks mourning (Daniel 10:2-3) with no evidence that anything had happened, and his words had been heard from the start. God heard Daniel at once and sent His answer at once; the opposition could slow the messenger and could not stop him. In Daniel's case, at least, the delay was no refusal.
Who the prince of Persia is
Who held the messenger back is contested. The word is שַׂר (sar, SAR, H8269), "prince" or "chief". The majority reading takes the prince of Persia as a hostile spiritual power over the Persian Empire. The ESV Study Bible calls him "an evil angel associated with the Persian Empire" (note on Daniel 10:13), the NIV Biblical Theology Study Bible reads him the same way, and the chapter supports it: he is paired with "the prince of Greece," and Michael, "your prince," stands against both (Daniel 10:20-21). The NIV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible instead takes him as a member of the heavenly council, set against Michael without opposing the LORD Himself. And sar is also Daniel's ordinary word for a human official (Daniel 1:7), so the word alone does not decide it. This study takes the spiritual reading, which fits the chapter's pairing of Michael against the princes best; "Those Called Gods" sets it beside Scripture's other heavenly powers. Daniel 10 opens the curtain on one wait. It shows that a delay can have causes the one praying never sees, and it gives no formula for reading any other delay.
The mode varies, and rarely announces itself
The mode is rarely specified, and varies when it is. Scripture narrates the outcome far more often than the machinery, but where it does say, the answers arrive by very different routes: an angel dispatched (Daniel 9:21); a person walking round the corner at the right moment (Genesis 24:15); an audible voice (John 12:28); a plain refusal with a reason attached ("My grace is sufficient for you", 2 Corinthians 12:9, after Paul "pleaded with the Lord" three times, 2 Corinthians 12:8); a door closed in one direction and opened in another (Acts 16:6-10).
Gethsemane: heard, and saved out of death
Jesus Himself prayed in Gethsemane, "My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will" (Matthew 26:39, ESV). The cup did not pass, and Hebrews still says He "was heard because of his reverence" (Hebrews 5:7, ESV). Hebrews names the Father as the one "able to save him from death," and the preposition is ἐκ (ek, EK, G1537), "out of": He was saved out of death, by resurrection, which is how the ESV Study Bible reads it (note on Hebrews 5:7). "In the days of his flesh" covers His whole earthly life, so Gethsemane is the likeliest prayer in view without being the only one.
The answer can be missed while it is happening
And the answer can be missed while it is happening. Scripture records two memorable cases.
The voice from heaven, heard as thunder
When Jesus prays "Father, glorify your name," God answers audibly — "Then a voice came from heaven" — and the bystanders cannot agree on what they just heard. The crowd "said that it had thundered"; others said, "An angel has spoken to him" (John 12:28-29, ESV).
The Greek is βροντὴν γεγονέναι (brontēn gegonenai, bron-TAYN geh-go-NEH-nai; βροντή, G1027, and γίνομαι, G1096), "that thunder had happened", and it does not settle what they meant by it. Scripture regularly describes God's own voice as thunder: "the God of glory thunders" (Psalm 29:3, ESV), "he thunders with his majestic voice" (Job 37:4, ESV), "The LORD thundered from heaven, and the Most High uttered his voice" (2 Samuel 22:14, ESV).
What the crowd meant is contested. The ESV Study Bible takes "thundered" as unbelief: people who heard "the very voice of God speaking from heaven" and took it for a natural event (note on John 12:29). Read beside those texts, the word may instead report a theophany in the only terms the hearers had. Either reading leaves a gradient: John records the words (John 12:28), one group hears something they can only call thunder, and a third recognises speech but guesses at the speaker. Jesus said the voice came "for your sake, not mine" (John 12:30, ESV). God answered out loud for the crowd's benefit, and the answer landed at three different depths in one crowd.
Peter at the gate
And the church, praying through the night for Peter in prison, does not believe the answer when it knocks on the door:
✝️ Acts 12:14-16 (ESV)
14 Recognizing Peter's voice, in her joy she did not open the gate but ran in and reported that Peter was standing at the gate. 15 They said to her, "You are out of your mind." But she kept insisting that it was so, and they kept saying, "It is his angel!" 16 But Peter continued knocking, and when they opened, they saw him and were amazed.
They had been praying for exactly this (Acts 12:5). It arrived, stood outside, and kept knocking while they argued that the girl was mad. The gap between an answered prayer and a recognised answer is sometimes a locked door and a conversation.
Your prayers are kept
The last thing Scripture shows about prayer's fate is the least expected. David asks that his prayer be "counted as incense before you" (Psalm 141:2, ESV), and Revelation pictures prayer that way in heaven: the elders hold "golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints" (Revelation 5:8, ESV). Prayers are gathered and kept before the throne.
Then they are answered, and the image is startling:
✝️ Revelation 8:3-5 (ESV)
3 And another angel came and stood at the altar with a golden censer, and he was given much incense to offer with the prayers of all the saints on the golden altar before the throne, 4 and the smoke of the incense, with the prayers of the saints, rose before God from the hand of the angel. 5 Then the angel took the censer and filled it with fire from the altar and threw it on the earth, and there were peals of thunder, rumblings, flashes of lightning, and an earthquake.
The same censer that carried the prayers up is filled with fire and thrown down, and the trumpets follow (Revelation 8:6). The ESV Study Bible titles the passage "The Saints' Prayers, and Fire Flung to Earth" (note on Revelation 8:2-5) and reads it the same way: "fiery devastation descends from God's altar in response to his people's pleas" (note on Revelation 8:2-11:18). It counts the martyrs' cry under the altar, "how long before you will judge and avenge our blood" (Revelation 6:10, ESV), among the prayers this answers (note on Revelation 8:3-5). The martyrs had been told to "rest a little longer" (Revelation 6:11, ESV); their answer was kept, and it comes from the same altar.
This bears on the ordinary experience of praying and seeing nothing. On this picture no prayer is lost. Some are kept: held, accumulated, and answered on a timetable that runs past the end of the life that prayed them. So when you pray and see nothing, you may know that your prayer reached God and is kept before Him until He answers it.
Discussion questions
- The language. The crowd at the voice from heaven said βροντὴν γεγονέναι, "that it had thundered" (John 12:29), and Psalm 29:3 says "the God of glory thunders". If "thunder" was their word for God speaking, what did that part of the crowd actually grasp?
- The text in its context. Acts 12:5 says "earnest prayer for him was made to God by the church", yet when Rhoda reported Peter at the gate they told her, "You are out of your mind" (Acts 12:15). What about that night in Jerusalem makes their disbelief understandable?
- Christ. Jesus said of the voice from heaven, "This voice has come for your sake, not mine" (John 12:30). What does it show about the Father's answers to His Son that this one was spoken for the bystanders?
- The hard part. Jesus said at the tomb, "I knew that you always hear me" (John 11:42). In Gethsemane the cup did not pass, and Hebrews 5:7 still says "he was heard because of his reverence." What must "heard" mean for both of those sentences to be true?
- Kept. The golden bowls of incense in Revelation 5:8 are "the prayers of the saints", and the martyrs' cry "how long" (Revelation 6:10) waits among them. What does it show about God that He keeps a prayer He has not yet answered?
- Be transformed. Abraham's servant is answered before he finishes praying (Genesis 24:15) and Daniel is told his words were heard on day one but the messenger was delayed twenty-one days (Daniel 10:12-13). Both are true. How should either change the way you read a silence?
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How God Answers Prayer
Daniel 10:12-13The point God hears His people's prayers from the first word, as Jesus was sure the Father always heard Him, and He answers by varied routes on His own timetable, sometimes unnoticed while it happens, keeping every prayer before Him until its answer comes.
Ask: Why hasn't God answered my prayer?
Hear a few answers before anyone reads.
Daniel 10:12-13 12“Do not be afraid, Daniel,” he said, “for from the first day that you purposed to understand and to humble yourself before your God, your words were heard, and I have come in response to them. 13However, the prince of the kingdom of Persia opposed me for twenty-one days. Then Michael, one of the chief princes, came to help me, for I had been left there with the kings of Persia.
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How God Answers Prayer
How God Answers Prayer
1The language. The crowd at the voice from heaven said βροντὴν γεγονέναι, "that it had thundered" (John 12:29), and Psalm 29:3 says "the God of glory thunders". If "thunder" was their word for God speaking, what did that part of the crowd actually grasp?
2The text in its context. Acts 12:5 says "earnest prayer for him was made to God by the church", yet when Rhoda reported Peter at the gate they told her, "You are out of your mind" (Acts 12:15). What about that night in Jerusalem makes their disbelief understandable?
3Christ. Jesus said of the voice from heaven, "This voice has come for your sake, not mine" (John 12:30). What does it show about the Father's answers to His Son that this one was spoken for the bystanders?
4The hard part. Jesus said at the tomb, "I knew that you always hear me" (John 11:42). In Gethsemane the cup did not pass, and Hebrews 5:7 still says "he was heard because of his reverence." What must "heard" mean for both of those sentences to be true?
5Kept. The golden bowls of incense in Revelation 5:8 are "the prayers of the saints", and the martyrs' cry "how long" (Revelation 6:10) waits among them. What does it show about God that He keeps a prayer He has not yet answered?
How God Answers Prayer
6Be transformed. Abraham's servant is answered before he finishes praying (Genesis 24:15) and Daniel is told his words were heard on day one but the messenger was delayed twenty-one days (Daniel 10:12-13). Both are true. How should either change the way you read a silence?
- Think. Count your prayer heard from its first word. Daniel's words were heard "from the first day" (Daniel 10:12), and a word went out "at the beginning" of his pleas (Daniel 9:23). A wait means the answer is still on its way, or kept until its time.
- Attitude. Hold your preferred route loosely. God has answered with a person arriving at a well, a door closed one way and opened another, and a refusal that came with grace attached: "My grace is sufficient for you" (2 Corinthians 12:9, ESV).
- Do. Watch for the answer as well as asking for it. The church in Acts 12 prayed all night for Peter and then argued with the girl who said he was at the gate (Acts 12:13-16). Write down what you ask, and look back over it, so that an answer knocking at your door gets let in.
Then he said to me, "Fear not, Daniel, for from the first day that you set your heart to understand and humbled yourself before your God, your words have been heard, and I have come because of your words.
Daniel 10:12 (ESV)Father, thank You that You heard Your Son Jesus every time He prayed, and that You hear us from the first word, as You heard Daniel. When the answer is slow, keep us sure that we have been heard. Open our eyes to the answers we would otherwise argue with at the door. Keep our prayers before You, as You have shown us in Revelation, until You answer them. In Jesus' name. Amen.
References & Recommended Reading
- ESV Bible (Crossway) -- primary translation quoted throughout, each quotation verified against this repo's study-notes.db.
- ESV Study Bible (Crossway) -- notes on Daniel 10:13, John 12:29, Hebrews 5:7, Revelation 8:2-5, 8:3-5 and 8:2-11:18, cited above.
- NIV Biblical Theology Study Bible (Zondervan) and NIV Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible, ed. John H. Walton and Craig S. Keener (Zondervan) -- notes on Daniel 10:13, for the two readings of the prince of Persia.
- MACULA Greek Linguistic Datasets (SBLGNT) and MACULA Hebrew Linguistic Datasets (WLC), queried via
this repo's
references/build/bible-text.db-- morphology and Strong's numbers for the Greek and Hebrew words cited above. - Prayer: Communion with God -- the study this one grew out of, on prayer as communion with the Father.